Almost everyone wants to be outstanding, desires to be cherished by his or her friends and life companion, longing to be noticed by other, worshipped by a bevy of gentlemen or women, want a attractive appearance to be welcomed in a society, aspire to achieve a stable relationship and lead a successful matrimonial life… All beyond imagination, and that’s why it is labelled as complex!
We dream every single day and night, hoping to meet someone who will love us, make us happier. Dream comes sweet, it is so abstract and concrete, I rather live in this so-called fantasy dimension. Those who lack of bravery in expressing their feelings to thier partners, tend to lost in reverie, in quest of searching true love and tell all their truthful words to them. Amazing, they could convey their meanings clearly to her/him, but this only valid in their dream!!!!!!!!! Why not one of us tell the truth? I love you! I admire you! I worship you! I can’t live without your smile! Shout it out every word which you want him/her to know after a long wait! But before you shout it out, you must certain that person is the one who you want to live with for the rest of your life! If not, you shall remorse one day! Tragedy would probably crop up! So… think twice or even thrice before act! What can u conclude for now? Love affects every system in our whole bodies, especially nervous system! Disagree? Then state your reason!
Sometimes in recent era, you would mostly hear someone, somehow say "Love can be so simple", hmmm, muz be suffer telling a "tale". And even got a lyric sounds so romantic, "Love can be so beautiful". It depends! And even though they were right, how long can that simpleness last? How long can the beauty of love sustain? IN other word, can love revolutionize to another form of "creature"? Interesting, right? If it could changes, there muz be the existence of "genetic problems" between the partners! Mean YOU and him/her. Straight to the POINT, it is the different ways of thinking which emerge as the main factor of love failures! Usually, mistakes are made at our age—adolescence age. WHY? Simple! We are not yet mature enough to accept a sharing life(Love). Many people desire love in order to parade themselves in public. They miss out some of the true meaning of it, don’t they? As a result, it often affects our conduct, and sacrifices some of the good sides…. If love turn us into devil, should we proceed on?
The bottom-line of the sigificance of love: Love does not behave rudely
Love does not parade itself
Love does not envy
Love thinks no evil
Love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth
Forgiving
Self-giving(self-sacrifice)
Ultimately relationship, not what we achieved or acquired, is what matters most in life. So why do we allow our relationships to get the short end of the stick? When our schedules become overloaded, we start skimming—cutting back on giving the time, energy, and attention that loving relationships require. What’s most important to us is replaced by what is most urgent. When life on earth is ending, we don’t surround ourselves with objects. What we want around us is people—people we love and have relationships with.
In our final moments we all realize that relationships are what life is all about. Learning this truth sooner rather than later is wisdom. Why then wait until we are on our deathbed to figure out that nothing matters more than a loving relationship? ~Max Lee C.C~
In our final moments we all realize that relationships are what life is all about. Learning this truth sooner rather than later is wisdom. Why then wait until we are on our deathbed to figure out that nothing matters more than a loving relationship? ~Max Lee C.C~
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